I am into one on one encounters. I have no interest in the bar scene or partying. I would rather spend the evening chained up in the basement awaiting whatever comes next.
As a successful careerwoman, my vanilla life demands much of my time. I do not need someone to "take care" of me or provide things in life. However, I do long to give up control of my life on occasion to the right man for safe, sane and consentual encounters. I would love to give myself over to another, fully aware that as soon as that first lock clicks shut, there is nothing I can do to stop what is going to happen until the agreed upon time is up. (except for an emergency safe word)
I fantasize about encounters that will last for days, bringing various levels of pain/pleasure to the point where the two are indistinguishable.
My real life BDSM experience is fairly little, although thanks to the internet, I feel that I have an understanding of most things that it has to offer.
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My Ideal Person:
Safe and sane and respectful of boundaries.
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