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DOES THIS SITE REALLY WORK 11/21/2004
DOES THIS SITE REALLY WORK
0 Comments,
50 Views,
12 Votes
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how do i get points 11/20/2004
how do i get points on alt
and what can i do with them
1 Comments,
32 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Why Is It men Can NOT behave In An Adult Manor IN A CRISIS? 11/19/2004
ok here's my recent story....
<br>
ahem's...<Clear throat>
My Live in husband/boyfriend/lover/bestfriend which
happends to be a "man", recently had a family
crisis, well his father became ill, and he has had to travel
a hour and a half each way to go and stay w/ him every night, for
the past week.Well i understand how stress can get to some, but
my gawd all mighty, my bf ...
1 Comments,
43 Views,
9 Votes
,2.14 Score
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Re: Pubic Hair 11/18/2004
Many agree with your assessment regarding pubic hair.
I am someone who shaves daily in my genital region and find
the same to be appealing in my partner. I feel the absence
of pubic hair both enhances acts of intimacy (no floss break,
lol) and is hygienically a good practice. I have however
run across others who preferred that their partner not
shave. Alt does include this question in our ...
0 Comments,
54 Views,
23 Votes
,5.81 Score
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Married Men 11/18/2004
There have been numerous articles here on alt in reference
to married men seeking no strings attached intimacy. They
say they love their wife and have no desire to get a divorce,
and that their only need is for sex itself. I find this to
be interesting in that marriage is about nurturing and
sex is part of that. If I were married to someone who only
had occasional sex with me when they felt ...
5 Comments,
125 Views,
23 Votes
,4.18 Score
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Shadows In The Rain 11/18/2004
I can hear them whisper, ,, ,
the shadows in the rain....
Telling me how it might have been, ,, ,
amused with my despair and my pain....
Showing me the future, ,, ,
the future of my past....
Laughing at the fool, ,, ,
who dared dream it might last....
Those days are gone forever, ,, ,,
and I should just let them go....
Although Im not sure how to do it, ,, ,
I think the ...
1 Comments,
15 Views,
9 Votes
,4.71 Score
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No thanks. 11/17/2004
Such a simple little sentence, it's such a shame that
so many fail or remember to use it.
<br>
But why say it at all? Maybe because our society has become
so complacent with our attitude of "Me" that
we have forgotten how much so many others touch our lives
each day.
<br>
No thanks, a simple and polite way of saying I'm not
interested.
<br>
No thanks, a ...
1 Comments,
22 Views,
29 Votes
,7.75 Score
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The magic of SEX!! 11/17/2004
To discover sexual magic..Feelings should not be repressed
but better driven....Is to have the will to change ones
life by sexual powers...one should try to dissolve any
dualities standin against them...empowerin their weakness, growing
their creative skills..an open-mind, quick n curious
is required to success in SEXUAL MAGIC..
1 Comments,
13 Views,
18 Votes
,4.22 Score
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Establishing Trust 11/17/2004
Establishing Trust
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It had begun seemingly much like the other times that they
had engaged in play. She was somewhat apprehensive having
no clue what he had in store for her. As his submissive, her
goal was to please and obey him. She hadn’t entered
into this arrangement casually and had come to value what
she perceived to be the only man who had ever ...
1 Comments,
39 Views,
25 Votes
,6.89 Score
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Re: Don't Like It Voters 11/17/2004
Smiles... I have been a contributor to alt magazine now
for nearly a year. People here on alt are afforded anonymity
and some feel that this gives them a license to be obnoxious,
overbearing, and insensitive in multiple arenas. The
magazine section is just one of them. Alt has added a comment
section for those who read the responses to the questions.
This I have learned is a double edge ...
2 Comments,
17 Views,
22 Votes
,5.05 Score
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The worst possible screwup.......ever in history 11/16/2004
One morning I Just casually pop into a favorite room, Looking
to say good morning to some friends, and start the day out
cheery. Sounds pretty good right? Hah! apparently the
lobes of my brain woke up with The completely opposite Idea...And
in the most horribly humiliating and irrevokably rude
manners I proceded to Disrespect someone that I hold in
high regard and have the utmost respect ...
1 Comments,
50 Views,
24 Votes
,6.88 Score
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oral sex 11/15/2004
are their any women on here who want to watch their men be
whipped or and abused by a black man would love to humiliate
the right white boy as you gaze on in awe
1 Comments,
32 Views,
25 Votes
,2.03 Score
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Ghost dom 11/15/2004
OK. I know this sounds crazy. But, I have been wanting to
tell this story to someone for a long time. And, for a couple
of reasons I haven't been able. I'm curious as
to what the response will be. This is a true story, really.
<br>
About five years ago I was staying at the Driskill Hotel
in Austin, which is know to be haunted by a couple of ghosts.
I've always considered ...
1 Comments,
41 Views,
18 Votes
,6.81 Score
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What to do after the break up 11/15/2004
What do you do after you and your Master/sub has left? Where
do you go? Who do you turn to? Actually, this is the time to
look inside yourself and find out just what your priorities
are. If you have precious possessions, then by all means,
make sure you have them about you before the final bell rings.
If you leave them and hope/expect the other person to take
care of them you may be in ...
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22 Views,
18 Votes
,4.76 Score
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Alt, Past And Present 11/13/2004
I have been a member of this website for close to two years
and have seen it evolve into something that doesn't
effectively provide a place for those within the community
to meet and interact. Some on this site aren't lifestylers.
They are individuals seeking kinky no strings attached
sex. Ask them a few questions regarding preferences around
lifestyle activities and some will admit that ...
1 Comments,
29 Views,
17 Votes
,4.68 Score
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Either your a dom or your not 11/11/2004
I have noticed that when I am contacted by someone that "claims"
to be a dom, I actually find out after talking that he really
is more of a Sub. Whats up with that? I mean you either know
what you want or you dont, Am I correct?
2 Comments,
24 Views,
41 Votes
,7.00 Score
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an open letter to someone who might know about relationships 11/11/2004
An open letter to someone who knows something about relationships
that didn't quite get off the ground.
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Dear someone who knows something about relationships
that didn't quite get off the ground,
<br>
Is it ok for me to keep the back issues and books I borrowed
from the girl that dumped me this past month? She actually
didn't mention them, but I'm sure she expects ...
1 Comments,
14 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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tell me where i am going wrong? 11/11/2004
i have been a switch for 9 years and my sub side in my eyes is
a powerful one....my dom side has vanished since i met this
wonderful dom..i am 110% totaly submissive towards him....
i do as i am told i do everything for him but i am in the unknown
and have been for a number of months.to me subitting your
self is a huge thing i desire and need his controll at all
times i crave pain torture ...
1 Comments,
47 Views,
33 Votes
,5.81 Score
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Re; Self Abuse/ Self Injury 11/11/2004
This author wrote to say she wonders how many in the lifestyle
have a history of childhood sexual and/or physical trauma.
I suspect many do. As submissives they have control over
what happens where as a they didn't. Self abuse
is pattern based behavior. For those with a history of trauma,
abuse is their norm. Many don't feel comfortable being
treated in any other way. Within the lifestyle ...
1 Comments,
14 Views,
22 Votes
,5.05 Score
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Nipple training/enlarging/stretching.... 11/9/2004
Could anyone give Me some hints or ideas for nipple training
for My sub/slave? She has reasonable size nipples but I
would like to stretchenlarge them a little to make it easier
to attach things to them... nipple clamps, tie, jewlery
etc.... Can anyone give Me a few hints or tips? Or Tell Me
of anything I could use for this?
1 Comments,
76 Views,
18 Votes
,5.03 Score
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Power and control 11/7/2004
This essay in the form of a dialogue argues that healthy
BDSM is not a lifestyle, and depends on the basic equality
of both players.
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The first time we met – over a coffee on a busy sidewalk cafe
– I asked her “What do the letters BDSM mean to you?”
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“What do they mean to you?” She looked me in the eye, unblinking,
as if to assert that her question ...
0 Comments,
29 Views,
9 Votes
,4.71 Score
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None Dick 11/7/2004
I have been trying to post none dick photos on my profile
for about two weeks they fit the 50kb or less . Ladys if you
will take a look at me
. I will invite you to my network and you can see. Very nice
<br>
Dwight
1 Comments,
20 Views,
9 Votes
,4.71 Score
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Are girls amazed... 11/6/2004
at how easy guys are? I mean really, we act like idiots over
the simplist things. Show a little cleavage, wear tight
pants or a short skirt and we'll do anything. We spend
exorbitant amounts of time, energy and money just trying
to get one of you. Does it ever amaze you?
1 Comments,
17 Views,
47 Votes
,1.82 Score
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teasers 11/6/2004
it's not fair, so many people on this site tease. why
not jsut be straight forward? I mean, the tease is a big turn
on, but it's still a tease. is there anyone left who
is more than just a tease?
1 Comments,
21 Views,
0 Votes
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Swing it Baby, Swing it! 11/5/2004
At the time of our first encounter with swinging I was working
in a small town bar in the south. We had decided that we would
take our sexual relationship to another level and try swinging.
We had been in contact with a couple that had recently moved
to our area and found out that they had had friends where
they previously lived that they swapped with. We thought
it would be interesting ...
0 Comments,
79 Views,
54 Votes
,6.99 Score
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Re: Betrayals Of Trust 11/4/2004
It's interesting to note that when others including
myself, have addressed this here on alt, multiple "I
don't like votes" or caustic responses to our
observations fly hard and fast. unfortunately those who
use and abuse (or try to abuse)do so with anomynity and are
no doubt smirking in satisfaction as they click that mouse
or text that critisism. The good news is that they operate
as ...
1 Comments,
87 Views,
20 Votes
,4.53 Score
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Yet Again !!!! 11/4/2004
Yes, it happened again. A man calling himself a dominant
turned out to be nothing but a man looking for a good time
and nothing more. the difference this time is he did his
home work, knew things to say when i questioned him about
certain things and did the whole nine yards about taking
time and trust and about being honest and of working together
towards a common goal. never demanding ...
2 Comments,
30 Views,
8 Votes
,4.64 Score
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So Y/you all know 11/4/2004
I am an avid supporter of respect, T/those that know me,
even online know that of me. When I receive unsolicited
mail filled with hate that disgusts me, as it breaks every
single thing W/we as a community stand for I share the very
offensive mail with Y/you all so that all may be better informed
of what is on this site. E/everyone should know who is out
thee and whether or not they are ...
4 Comments,
33 Views,
27 Votes
,3.45 Score
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pop ups 11/2/2004
I am getting so damn frustrated at all of the pop ups.......why
when you send an email do we have to fill in the confirmation
numbers for protection against spam and the like.....BUT
they still pop up.....are there others out there like me
who are totally frustrated with this crap?
1 Comments,
51 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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kidnapping 11/2/2004
I just re-read a question from a respondant who was wondering
if it would be ok to take a young woman (1 by force, because
her parents had said it was alright because she has a shoplifiting
problem and they want him to give her a weekend "hell
training" session.
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I simply cannot believe the number of people on this site
who think this is alright. Have i ever done a kidmap ...
0 Comments,
73 Views,
16 Votes
,6.07 Score
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