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trustnowobey 72M

8/25/2018 4:30 am

one huge-long-cock. lol


learninginhou 64M
57 posts
8/25/2018 5:53 am

continue to grow together....always learning.....


anoldsoul4fun 60M

8/25/2018 7:29 am

Does everything in life have to be "win or lose" or "success or failure"? My belief is life has more depth when their is a connection forged between people, good or bad endings too, as you still had those moments that made both mind and body smile, grin and tingle. One doesn't just lose those moments that brought you together in the first place.

Questioning the status quo is always worth the thoughtful time to ponder it!


jaykay48 75M
11442 posts
8/25/2018 10:52 am

I agree with Sub-Nouveau. To add to that idea, a successful relationship IMHO, is one that begins great, levels off into good, and ends, if it needs to, before it turns bad.


Doc_Sonar 66M
24589 posts
8/25/2018 2:37 pm

How long do you have to be with someone before you reach “Successful relationship” status
>>>>Doc: I don't know. Seems all [*personal & subjective to ME.]

if it suddenly goes south and ends is it still a “successful relationship” or just a big Mistake?
>>>>Doc: Could be a mistake if it fits your Mistake Criteria. See above*.

Are all past relationships mistakes especially if they end badly?
>>>>Doc: NO. Not all, or necessarily ANY. Just ~ the Bad Ending FEELS mistake-riddled, trickier.

sub and jaykay resonate with me.

I appreciate you and this post.
xoz

Doc_Sonar

I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar


Breathe Deeply~
Peace


Doc_Sonar 66M
24589 posts
8/25/2018 2:38 pm

PS
I'm just guessing - maybe that tail was super flexible...able to move out of the way, like a scorpions is. Shrugging.

Doc_Sonar

I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar


Breathe Deeply~
Peace


drmgirl622 68F  
25880 posts
8/25/2018 6:39 pm

any relationship that has taught a lesson or brought some sort of an epiphany i consider a success..........


tahimikbayani 53M
8008 posts
8/26/2018 6:53 pm

"Relationship"? That's like counting...success is subjective, though reaching mattress magic is a good indicator.


MasterJaq1 53M
38 posts
8/30/2018 8:46 pm

All things have a beginning and an ending. A relationship ending badly doesn't mean that it was a failure, it means that in that circumstance there was failure to part ways on good terms. Often it is the only way that some people can let go completely so they can move on. Possibly laying blame on the other person and in denial of their part of the puzzle.
Longevity in a relationship doesn't mean it is successful. I know people that live together but have completely separate lives because it is easier to stay together that to part ways for what ever reasons.
The experiences of relationships that help us to grow and make us wiser and what to look for down the road is how you measure failure or success. If you leave a relationship that was unhealthy for you and you get into the exact same situation with some one else then you can say there was failure to learn from past experiences.
Even if you have a relationship that is good happy and healthy and it come to an end, you carry that experience forward with you and you know what to look for and what you want and the success come from not settling for anything less than what will make you happy and allow you to grow in a positive way.

Sorry to be long winded, didn't mean to write a book.

J



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