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andei2 67F
19 posts
8/31/2022 4:00 pm
Now I get it!!


So here I am an older female who happens to be kinky and submissive.
Holy smokes my mail box has been very active!
Yeah some of it has been crap, people who think that because I am sub and on this site it means I will want to obey some random dud(e). No, at my age I have learned to be discerning.
But, I was wondering WHY? I mean I am not young, cute, perky anymore. I am quite ordinary by my standards. But I get mail here, on Fetlife, even on OKCupid as if I am someone who they might want to get to know.
Weird.
I decided on a bit of research. To that end I set my perimeters here to include females. Hmmm... I think there are not so many women here who are looking, but not expecting cash or gifts. I am glad to see there are a few real people here, but seeing so many that were almost models, that threw me.
It does make me understand why people like me, ordinary people, might be someone even a younger man might find appealing.

KsSwitch127 61M
3 posts
8/31/2022 4:08 pm

from your pics you are cute and if you match in personality that's even better


bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4028 posts
8/31/2022 4:17 pm

Hm...a hardon has no conscience & w age comes wisdom choose wisely grasshopper happy hunting!


lab4dirtymilf 44M
29 posts
8/31/2022 5:03 pm

i like to find someone that is into taboo that wants to meet and try new things and get to know me.


imcre8ive 64M

8/31/2022 8:17 pm

I wonder why you doubt yourself . How old do you feel, (no don't look in the mirror) you feel 30 right and you act 31 but your brain is 65. I think you should just enjoy every single day.


Will35 60M
385 posts
8/31/2022 8:51 pm

Nearly all the comments in response to my status updates are from Dommes looking for a slave ... and my updates always include that I'm a Dom looking for a sub/slave/etc. ...
And, for some reason, most of those commenters are from France (or claim to be).
I think some people can't read or don't care.


fantasytony 73M  
46 posts
8/31/2022 9:06 pm

It is about that wonderful sex organ between your ears.
Good luck.


primalsubmissio1 72F

8/31/2022 9:20 pm

Good for you. I am in the same boat, but at my age, it's hard to find someone unattached and retired and free to travel. I keep hoping!! It also doesn't help that women can't be free on here and still answer or initiate emails with other men. It's not like there's so many of us women, that they'd go broke. It might keep the paying men if they thought there was a way to find a woman on here.


alwaysassertive 63M

8/31/2022 9:32 pm

Interesting profile, quite long too. I see you are attracted to intelligence. I find that interesting. I just worked a puzzle that said 2 to 4 years and I completed it in only an hour. A lot of profiles have photos that could only have been taken by a professional photographer and an expert in lighting. You can count on anyone having photos like that as being fake. I find profiles that either use the same text or very close to the same. If you blog for a few weeks you'll find men that are in total agreement with whatever you say and are basically begging you for pussy. I have no respect for man that will say or do anything for an opportunity for sex or have his ego inflated. Anyway. you take care and good luck in your search.


lil_sub73 50F

8/31/2022 9:48 pm

As I am new I find your experience interesting. It gives me hope that I will find someone.


Kitcatshadow1 57F
507 posts
8/31/2022 10:13 pm

    Quoting alwaysassertive:
    Interesting profile, quite long too. I see you are attracted to intelligence. I find that interesting. I just worked a puzzle that said 2 to 4 years and I completed it in only an hour. A lot of profiles have photos that could only have been taken by a professional photographer and an expert in lighting. You can count on anyone having photos like that as being fake. I find profiles that either use the same text or very close to the same. If you blog for a few weeks you'll find men that are in total agreement with whatever you say and are basically begging you for pussy. I have no respect for man that will say or do anything for an opportunity for sex or have his ego inflated. Anyway. you take care and good luck in your search.
I just worked a puzzle that said 2 to 4 years and I completed it in only an hour.

This made me


MASTERMISTERY3 57M
52 posts
9/1/2022 5:55 am

SEXY WOMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Plzrmeister 67M  
10153 posts
9/1/2022 6:29 am

as if I am someone who they might want to get to know

And why wouldn't they, or anyone? For starters, you're 'real' and not one of the overabundant fake profiles that abound here. You've obviously got your head screwed on straight, are honest, sincere and can even type a complete sentence!

Not to mention you're quite attractive in my eyes. Don't doubt yourself, or your appeal, for a second. There are many men/Dominants on here searching for someone exactly like you. I can think of one right now!


Make Women Female Again


gynexdoor22 64M

9/1/2022 1:14 pm

A mature confident woman is very sexy. And you are also very attractive. And like many of us on here you think, feel and act much younger than your age. That will keep you very desirable forever. You will soon have your pick of good men on here.


DancingDom 74M
22476 posts
9/1/2022 1:54 pm

Welcome to the blogs young lady. Best to you.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


socalmale1 72M
85 posts
9/1/2022 8:14 pm

Whats to understand; people want Real.


socalmale1 72M
85 posts
9/1/2022 8:18 pm

BTW you ever notice the lazy ones just post stupid naked pics surrounding their words just because they think that if they adorn their comments someone will read it. As soon as I open a Blog and the writer has all these pics of naked women I think I will move on and hope I find a real Blog like yours.


rumprover 57M
43 posts
9/28/2022 10:13 pm

right on the money!



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