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Real or Fake Infatuation and superficial attention are like that much-needed first drink on a Friday night after a long, shitty week. It goes down way too easily and tastes so damn good, but ultimately it doesn’t actually fix any of the crap you’ve had to deal with that week. It’s nice to bask in that initial glow of attention at the start when everything is rainbows, unicorns, and flying bunnies. And if that’s all you’re looking for then there’s nothing wrong with that. But that’s not what I care about. The blaze, started by that first spark, will eventually subside. It always does. What you want is for it to continue its burn. It won’t always be an out-of-control fire but as long as its embers are glowing and keeping you on your toes with its heat, that’s all you need. You want to be able to stoke them any time you want. And that will only happen with someone who can read you. Who has learned your intricacies and internal mechanisms? Someone, who knows why you tick the way you do. They’ll pick up on the obvious signs that even a blind man could see, but especially on those invisible cues that can only be sensed by someone who not only pays attention to you but who also genuinely gives a fuck. Most people are guarded. We don’t often like to feel vulnerable. Basically, we want others to know how we feel, what we’re thinking about, and what upsets us, without having to always come out and actually say it. Men and women, we’re all the same in that regard. Maybe we’ll never be able to read people’s minds or fully understand exactly why another person feels the way they do, what emotions are coursing through them at any given time, or what demons they’re constantly battling - but look for someone who will try. Who will attempt more often than not to figure you out and help you deal with whatever you’re struggling with? Infatuation and token attention are cubic zirconia. Making an effort, doing the hard work, and giving a shit, that’s the diamond. You pick. Copyright © Dirty Romantic - Tales of Love, Lust & Loss *Archive  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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abso-freaking-lutely
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something w substance stands the rest of time a meeting of the minds connection of souls...you’re right majority of people live in a isolated protective bubble afraid to put themselves out there...it’s NOT going to come to them that’s for sure!
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 Slave rick
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Soo true, and i see this happin "in the Dutch scene" time and time again Both crying and blaming the other for the things gone wrong being vindictive, or playing the victum.... They did not take the time ,to really build a strong basis. Just jumped into the sex, horny, what ever,... And, when i dont agree to jump into that game, blaming mé for being fake..  . Yeah, sure....
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9/26/2022 3:46 am |
A hungry heart eats a lot of lies.
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The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settled for. ~ Maureen Dowd "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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